What will you be doing the next ten years?
If you are like me, you may not think about that question very much if at all. I decided to today, though, after I read the paper and saw the obituary of a former
acquaintance. I'm glad more photos are included now with obituaries, as that's how I recognized her. I think we worked together at one time as nursing
faculty back in the day. She died from complications of Alzheimer's......reading further, I discovered she died at home after a 10 year battle with this disease.
That's where the idea of my question came. I know what she was doing for the past ten years. When her journey began, she was nearly the same age as I am today.
This fact caused me to think a little more about how I'm living my life right now......and what we all know is true, how we are not able to know what awaits us in the
next ten years. For me, it isn't about what I plan to do or go to or see or experience in the next ten years. We probably will never get to all the places we think we may want to go....and you know what? in the end, that will be okay. More than okay, it will be fine. It will be how our life unfolds for our own unique set of circumstances.
For me, it is more about how I will actually live my life amid all the routines, dailiness, and sunrises and sunsets I am given. Amid the meals prepared and dishes washed.
Amid the housecleaning and laundry, grocery shopping. Amid the books I read and those I cast aside. Amid the fabric I use and pieces left languishing in the closet. Amid the ipad, iphone, and computer. Amid the holidays and everydays. Amidst it ALL, there's a life to be lived, that starts with your attitude and perspective.
So, what will I be 'being' in the next ten years while I do all those other things? Today's a good day for me to figure that out. Now you may expect to start reading all those
cliches and other blah, blah, blah. You know, you can read it all a million times and never take action. After all, there are groceries to buy and that pesky laundry thing.
But I'm afraid those cliches hold truths perhaps that maybe I should be paying more attention to in the next ten years. Or even today. I have begun this process already, trying to live more in the present, practice gratitude, and take silence as a chance to reconnect with the spiritual. But today I got another nudge from the elbow of the universe to start living a more genuine life amidst all the stuff that keeps me busy. And now I'm nudging you. I'm going for a walk!